2025-06-09

Doctors & Dignity

 

Yes. If your surgery is in that area. Yes, if it’s not. Not like they put you up in stirrups exposure EVERY time, but honestly, once you are anesthetized, they don’t give a rat’s patoot about your dignity. It’s easier to position a patient without the gown on. That ugly thing that does nothing for our dignity is a hazard. It can get caught in the operating table mechanisms, can get bunched up and cut off circulation, gets soiled with bodily fluids and has to be changed and MORE. These personnel positioning us and preparing us aren’t nurses or doctors, they are technicians. They have no licenses, are supposedly checked out for criminal history and such, and are ‘trained’ by the hospital to do exactly what they are doing: get the ‘job’ done. Patients are jobs. Once anesthetized, no compassion is required. Even posters claiming to be ‘in the business’ post this. They don’t care, and they need to cut costs, so we can’t expect to be treated with dignity plain and simple. If you want that surgery, you comply.

Of course, there is also the fact that doctors and nurses truly believe that we should feel graced by them even stooping to ‘care’ for us and thus if the patient is ‘available’ to ‘study’ in the operating room, that ANY body part is up for scrutiny, examination, and photographs whether actually necessary for the patient’s health or not. That little part of the multiple paged consent form you sign just before you go under contains the oh so gracious line about the doctor, personnel and in fact ANYONE in that facility having your consent to do ANYTHING they deem ‘medically’ necessary. Not necessarily for YOUR health, but necessary for THEM. They are the ‘medical’ arbiters of what is ‘necessary’. Your arm is considered to be just the same as your genitals, and they make NO distinction.

They are so magnanimous in their sharing their ‘gifts’ with us lowly, untrained, IGNORANT plebes that IF they feel it is ‘necessary’ they will give us complimentary multiple pelvic or rectal exams done by their medical students while we are kept under anesthesia LONGER to do this. HHS wrote a truly lame directive on this, that has a nice little codicil that the doctor can over ride the patient’s declining students ‘practicing’ on them. Even the states that forbid this disgusting abuse of patients can’t enforce their law, and patients are told that if they decline, their surgery is cancelled.

Add in the fact that the surgeon doing the surgery very rarely is ‘in on’ the prep process, and enters the OR AFTER the patient has been prepped and draped. They have no idea what has or hadn’t been done to the patient regarding dignity, privacy or what invasive techniques have been used despite the patient’s wishes. So promises made by surgeons to preserve dignity and privacy are very rarely followed by the OR personnel who are solely interested in following ‘what we always do’. That unnecessary urinary catheter was put in anyway, and a student nurse was allowed to do it. ‘Because we always put one in’ says the nurse in charge. The patient is NEVER made aware of this. It absolves the facility of being responsible for catheter associated urinary tract infections. Many patients awaken to find their genitals completely shaved for NECK surgery. We truly are there for them to ‘practice’ on.

Remember, patients are beholding to these ‘higher intelligence’ GODS, and our bodies are theirs for the using whether we are alive or dead. They are entitled, and we are considered selfish and too ‘prudish’ if we don’t like how we are treated when awake OR how we are treated when anesthetized and vulnerable. We are repeatedly penetrated by strangers we aren’t even allowed to TALK to about this ‘practice’ ahead of time.

So yes, at the very least our private parts are exposed, and we’d better just go along with them, because as one poster wrote, we are whiny, self-concerned pains in the asses who just don’t understand how hard they have to work and how overly demanding and undeserving we are. And don’t forget to leave them a five star review on the way out.

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As a person in the medical field, I'm literally appalled at your answer. That may have been your experience, but that is not par for the course. Even though the patient is anesthetized and areas are exposed, they are all treated with dignity and respect, at least where I work. Also, it isn't techs setting up the operating room, it is an RN here.

Its the surg tech here that sets up the room and helps position the patients. A CNA does the shaving in pre op. If you are going to be appalled at anyone be at your fellow colleagues around the world who do treat patients less than respectfully. It happens more than anyone will admit. Only some make the news.

Alana Mcintyre
Supercillious, murderers and PROFITEERS. WAKE UP.you are lying to yourself.

Nicole, I had hand surgery and chose Cowboy (awake) and while sitting up during prep on the table and cordoned off from the surgeon by a sheet, a tech walked by knocked the back board out from under me slamming my aching back and head against the table. The same with a biopsy with the anesthesiologist nurse zapping me slamming my head against the table. Blowing up on the rad table due to an untreated known bladder urgency issue on a radiation table because they wouldn’t treat me and having to piss in a urinal while on the table with 4 women watching me and a guy trying to push me off of the table while in process. I used to respect the medical profession, but they are shit to me now. Nichole Stephens, I can appreciate you being appalled and can only conclude it is because you are either new to the field, in denial or are blessed to actually work in a practice where the patient is treated with respect. I am currently on the cancer pass the patient around merry go round. I am truly appalled by the lack of respect towards patients from the medical field. And to think I used to respect the field.

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